To keep in your mind and heart

 To keep in your mind and heart

Recently I read:

12 most important teachings of Buddhism about human relationships

1. Don't feel bad because there are people who only remember you when they need you. Feel privileged to have the candle in their minds that burns when they are in the dark.

2. There will always be someone in your life who does not treat you well. Thank him for making you stronger.

3. If someone mistreats you, remember:

There is something wrong with him, not you. Healthy people do not destroy each other.

4. When it hurts, listen. Life is trying to teach you something.

5. There are three solutions to every problem: accept, change, or let go. If you can't accept, make a difference. If you can't change it, let it go.

6. Let people judge you. Let them misunderstand you. Let them gossip about you. What they think of you is not your problem. Their opinion will not pay your bills. So stay kind, love persistently and be a free personality, whatever they say or do, never doubt your value and the beauty of truth. Keep shining and let the haters hate.

7. No matter how educated, talented, cool, or rich you think you are, the way you treat others will eventually tell you all about you. Integrity is everything.

8. The less you care what people think of you, the happier you will be.

9. Silence is the best answer to those who don't appreciate your words.

10. If you think everything is someone else's fault, you will suffer a lot. When you understand that everything starts from you, you will find peace and joy.

11. Where there is no respect, there is no love.

12. Relationships never die natural death. They are killed by ego, rejection and attitude.